25+ Things You Might Want to Know When You Visit the Netherlands

Things to Know When You Visit the Netherlands

As a foreign resident of the Netherlands, I occupy a kind of sweet spot. I’m enough of an insider to know what’s what, but enough of an outsider to guess what other foreigners might find unusual or confusing when they visit — and, in case it’s not already clear, enough of a blogger to write it down and put it on the internet.

The following is my incomplete, mostly objective, and super official compilation of things to know when you visit the Netherlands. There won’t be an exam or anything, but it might help you avoid a mishap or two along the way.

Words, Names, and Language

• The country is called “the Netherlands,” but Dutch people will almost always refer to it as “Holland” when they speak to you in English. “Holland” actually refers to the two most populated provinces of the country — North and South Holland — but somewhere along the way, it became shorthand for the country as a whole. Some people are bothered by this, some people are not. If you want to be safe, just say “the Netherlands.”

• A coffee shop is where you buy weed; a café is where you buy coffee. If you ask someone for directions, make sure you’re clear about which one you’re after.

• You definitely don’t need to master the Dutch language before you visit, but trying a little will go a long way. The locals will appreciate it — even if they do immediately switch into English for the rest of your conversation (which will probably happen, especially with younger people and/or in the bigger cities).

• Public toilets will typically be labeled “dames” (“ladies”) or “heren” (“gentlemen”). Sometimes, they might have cutesy drawings you need to decipher instead — because who doesn’t love solving a quick riddle when they have to pee? Gender-neutral toilets aren’t super common, but they are gradually becoming more available, at least in bigger cities.

• In Dutch, “ij” is pronounced “eye” — not “idge,” like English speakers might assume. (As an example, the Dutch city of Nijmegen rhymes with High-megen, not Fridge-megen.)

• The Netherlands never dubs foreign-language films or programs, whether on television or in the cinema. Everything is shown in its original language with Dutch subtitles (with the exception of some films or programs for young children, which may be dubbed over in Dutch — but these will generally be labeled as such).

Summer sunset near Nijmegen, the Netherlands
Summer sunset near Nijmegen

Dutch Holidays

• For the first time in more than 100 years, the Netherlands has a king, Willem-Alexander. Accordingly, they now celebrate King’s Day on the 27th of April — not Queen’s Day on the 30th. It’s been a few years since this change, but it seems people are still showing up to the party in Amsterdam a few days late. Don’t let this happen to you.

• King’s Day is biggest in Amsterdam, but it’s not the only place people are celebrating. Nearly every Dutch city or town will have its own party going on. Consider heading somewhere besides Amsterdam if you’d prefer a less “full-on” experience.

• The Dutch observe two days for most Christian holidays — Christmas is the 25th and 26th, Easter is both Sunday and Monday, ditto for Pentacost (Whitsunday/Monday). If you’re traveling around these holidays, be aware that opening times and availabilities might be more limited.

• The 4th of May is Dodenherdenking (Remembrance of the Dead), in honor of all who have died in and since World War II. There is a large ceremony in Dam Square in Amsterdam, and two minutes of silence observed at 8pm. Be respectful of the silence if you are out in public during this time.

• The next day, the 5th of May, is Bevrijdingsdag (Liberation Day), which marks the end of Germany’s occupation of the Netherlands during the war. The Dutch celebrate Bevrijdingsdag with festivals and live music all over the country. It’s not quite as big as King’s Day, but again, opening hours and public transport timetables might be different — so it’s not a bad idea to check beforehand if that will affect your plans.

• In November and early December, many Dutch participate in traditions leading up to a holiday called Sinterklaas. One of the more famous traditions is that of Zwarte Piet, or Black Pete, which involves people dressing up in blackface at a variety of events throughout the country. While there are those who (quite rightly) call this practice racist and insist it should be removed from Sinterklaas celebrations, there are also a ton of defensive Dutch folks who refuse to consider it wrong or change anything. Be aware that if you travel to the Netherlands during this time, it’s highly likely you’ll come across blackface.

As a sidenote: The racism of Zwarte Piet/blackface is not open for negotiation on my blog, and any comments in defense of it will be deleted. You are free to think I’m just some foreigner who doesn’t know what she’s talking about, but I don’t owe anyone a platform for their bigotry.

Holidays in the Netherlands: Bevrijdingsdag (Liberation Day) festival in Zwolle
Bevrijdingsdag (Liberation Day) festival in Zwolle

Culture and Lifestyle

• It’s kind of weird to greet someone in the Netherlands with any variation of “How are you?” This is a question you ask friends or acquaintances — not a bartender or cashier you’ve never met. It’s more common to simply say hello, or good morning/afternoon/evening.

• Don’t take photos of the people in the windows in the Red Light District in Amsterdam. Don’t take a quick photo, or a sneaky photo, or “just one” photo. Sex workers are people, and you are not at an aquarium.

• Queueing politely for trains or buses isn’t really common. It’s not chaos or anything (there’s no pushing or fighting), but you will have to be assertive and just…go.

• The Netherlands is not some paradise of love, acceptance, and equality. I like living here most of the time, and you can certainly argue it’s more progressive than some places; but it’s got plenty of its own problems, just like anywhere else.

Vrijthof in Maastricht, the southernmost city in the Netherlands
Vrijthof in Maastricht, the southernmost city in the Netherlands

Food and Drink

• A cup of tea or coffee in a Dutch café usually comes with a small cookie or piece of chocolate. Coffee will also come with milk (often a special kind called, no kidding, “coffee milk”), but tea will not come with milk unless you ask for it.

• The Dutch version of “bon appetit” or “enjoy your meal” is “eet smakelijk” (“ate smah-ke-lick”).

• Bottles with blue labels/caps usually contain plain water, and bottles with red labels/caps contain sparkling water. (The Dutch refer to these as “spa blauw” [rhymes with “cow”] and “spa rood” [like “road”], respectively.)

• Fries are usually served with mayonnaise by default. Most places will have other sauces available; just ask.

Side street in Utrecht, the Netherlands
A quiet side street in Utrecht

Trains and Transport

• The Dutch railway system is called the NS. (It stands for Nederlandse Spoorwegen, which literally means “Dutch Railway,” but don’t worry: you can just call it the NS.) They operate two kinds of trains, the Intercity (IC) and the Sprinter. The Sprinter makes frequent stops and generally takes a bit longer, while the IC is more of an express from one city to the next.

• It’s highly likely you will be asked to show proof of ticket purchase on the train. I’ve taken hundreds of rides, and I can can count on one hand the amount of times I haven’t been checked.

• Intercity trains usually have silent compartments, denoted by little signs of a person with a finger to their lips. These are intended to be quiet spaces, so don’t sit here if you want to chat with your travel companions, make a phone call, etc.

• The Netherlands is small; you can reach dozens of different cities in an hour or two. Don’t feel like you have to stay in one place the whole time — especially if you’ll be here for more than a few days. (Might I suggest my adopted home province of Overijssel?)

• You knew it was coming: look out for the bicycles. Most cities have a designated pathway for cycling next to the street or sidewalk, and if you’re not accustomed to this, it can be very easy to forget. Pay attention to where you’re walking or standing, especially when you’re crossing the street or waiting for a traffic light to change.

Twilight in Amsterdam, the Netherlands
Twilight in Amsterdam

Money, Money, Money

• Credit cards are not accepted at many places — often, you’ll need to pay with either cash or a Dutch bank card. It’s a good idea to ask in advance if you’d like to pay by credit card.

• The smallest coin used in the Netherlands is 5 cents, and all prices are rounded accordingly for cash payments.

• There’s usually a fee between 50 cents and €1 for public toilets (for example, in train stations or shopping centers). Exact change isn’t usually necessary, but it’s a good idea to hang onto a few coins in case you need to pee while out and about.

• “Pinnen” means to pay with a Dutch bank card (aka, using a pin). Occasionally, certain check-out lines or points-of-sale will be pin-only (“alleen pinnen”), so be sure to avoid those if you’re paying with cash.

Boats in the Oude Haven (Old Harbor) in Rotterdam, with the Willemsburg and Witte Huis in the background
Oude Haven (“old harbor”) in Rotterdam

For obvious reasons, this list focuses on handy information for a short visit to the Netherlands. If you’re curious about what it’s like to live here long-term, check out my fun facts about Dutch life or the living abroad tag for more.

As usual, if you have any questions or your own tips for the Netherlands to share, feel free to leave them in the comments!

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Planning a trip to the Netherlands? Click through for a foreign resident's things to know about Holland -- including tips on the Dutch language, train travel, holidays in the Netherlands, and more. | #Holland #Nederland #Netherlands

Planning a trip to the Netherlands? Click through for a foreign resident's things to know about Holland -- including tips on the Dutch language, train travel, holidays in the Netherlands, and more. | #Holland #Nederland #Netherlands

Planning a trip to the Netherlands? Click through for a foreign resident's things to know about Holland -- including tips on the Dutch language, train travel, holidays in the Netherlands, and more. | #Holland #Nederland #Netherlands | Photo by PublicDomainPictures (Pixabay)

Planning a trip to the Netherlands? Click through for a foreign resident's things to know about Holland -- including tips on the Dutch language, train travel, holidays in the Netherlands, and more. | #Holland #Nederland #Netherlands